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		<title>4 tips for traveling to Islamic Countries</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2008 07:00:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shabana Nather</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[  Turkey, Egypt, Morocco, Indonesia – these are some of the most exotic and beautiful places on the planet. They are also overwhelmingly Muslim. In these days, when there is so much talk of the clash of civilizations, travel is one way to bridge these gaps.  Fear exists when there is unfamiliarity.  [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <img src="http://www.venere.com/blog/images/koutoubia-mosque-marrakech.jpg" align="left" height="176" width="240" /> <a href="http://www.venere.com/hotels/turkey/" target="_blank"><strong>Turkey</strong></a>, <a href="http://www.venere.com/hotels/egypt/" target="_blank"><strong>Egypt</strong></a>, <a href="http://www.venere.com/hotels/morocco/" target="_blank"><strong>Morocco</strong></a>, <a href="http://www.venere.com/hotels/indonesia/" target="_blank"><strong>Indonesia</strong></a> – these are some of the most exotic and beautiful places on the planet. They are also overwhelmingly <strong>Muslim</strong>. In these days, when there is so much talk of the<strong> clash of civilizations</strong>, travel is one way to bridge these gaps.  Fear exists when there is unfamiliarity.  Meeting people of other faiths, even those whose beliefs are diametrically opposite to your own, can open your eyes to the truth of <strong>universal humanity</strong>.</p>
<p>The vast differences between <strong>Islam</strong> and <strong>other religions</strong> make cultural traditions and common taboos in <strong>Muslim countries</strong>, baffling. Here are just a few things that you’ll have to watch out for to make the most of your vacation.</p>
<h4>1. Dress Right</h4>
<p><strong>Islamic places of worship</strong> are ostentatious, and spectacular pieces of architecture with intricate detailing, and lavish treatments.  On a visit to a <strong>mosque</strong> or <strong>shrine</strong>, women are expected to cover their heads at all times, when inside the building. Avoid strappy <strong>clothes</strong>, shorts, and tight tops.  Guys too, would be better off covering up bare knees.  Remove your footwear, and leave them outside the<strong> mosque complex</strong>.  Once inside, speak in soft voices &#8211; even if you don’t see hordes of people <strong>praying</strong>, you might still disturb the peace.  Even outside of a <strong>religious structure</strong>, maintain decorum in your attire.  You don’t have to be veiled from head to toe, but remember that in some countries, the only women who are dressed a “certain way” are hookers.</p>
<h4>2. Avoid Over Familiarity</h4>
<p><strong>Islam</strong> maintains a strict <strong>segregation of the sexes</strong>, and roles for both genders in relation to each other are clearly defined.  If you’re a girl, remember what seems like friendliness to you could be misconstrued as an interest in taking things further by the other person. Avoid eye contact with strangers. If you’re a guy, remember, the religion places great importance on the <strong>honor of women</strong>.  Keep a respectful distance from the ladies, and all should be well.</p>
<h4>3. Avoid Proselytizing</h4>
<p>In <strong>Egypt</strong>, <strong>proselytism </strong>is a <strong>crime</strong> that can lead to a fine and deportation.  Whatever you think about <strong>Islam</strong>, keep your views to yourself.</p>
<h4>4. Avoid Taking Pictures Randomly</h4>
<p>Don’t just point your <strong>camera</strong>, and shoot people you find interesting.  <strong>Islam</strong> doesn’t permit the representation of people and animals in pictures.  You might offend without meaning to.  Also, ask for permission if you want to <strong>take pictures</strong> inside a <strong>mosque</strong> or <strong>religious shrine</strong>.</p>
<p><em>Picture of <strong>Koutoubia Mosque</strong> in <a href="http://www.venere.com/morocco/marrakech/" target="_blank"><strong>Marrakech</strong></a>, <a href="http://www.venere.com/hotels/morocco/" target="_blank"><strong>Morocco</strong></a> originally posted by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/mtl_shag/2163737341/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Mtl Shag</a></em></p>
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		<title>A guide to surviving India</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 31 May 2008 12:00:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shabana Nather</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You might love India, you might hate it; but one thing’s for sure – you’ll never be unaffected by it.  This country of a billion is more than just an assault on the senses, as travel writers like to call it.  It’s vast, noisy, incredibly diverse, ostentatious, incredibly wealthy, dirt poor, simple, extravagant [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.venere.com/blog/images/indian-market-2.jpg" align="left" />You might <strong>love India</strong>, you might hate it; but one thing’s for sure – you’ll never be unaffected by it.  This country of a billion is more than just an assault on the senses, as <strong>travel writers </strong>like to call it.  It’s vast, noisy, incredibly diverse, ostentatious, incredibly wealthy, dirt poor, simple, extravagant all at the same time.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.venere.com/hotels/india/" target="_blank"><strong>India</strong></a> is not an easy country to do, if you’re visiting for the first time.  In fact, you should probably “ease” into the country after visiting a couple of other<strong> Asian destinations</strong> first, to lessen the culture shock that assaults visitors as soon as they land.</p>
<p>You’ll never be able to say your trip to India was boring, but here are a few tips to keep in mind, so your holiday doesn’t get too exciting to handle!</p>
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<h4>Clothing</h4>
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<p>India is a <strong>hot country</strong> for the most part, except during the time from November to January when some parts of the country, particularly the North, experience chilly winters.  Women should avoid long, flowing dresses that can drag on the ground – the roads leave a lot to be desired – and too skimpy attire.  <strong>Indian women</strong> are modest in their clothing, and your Daisy Dukes and a Tee combo will elicit more stares than you need.</p>
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<h4>Packing</h4>
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<p>Bring most of your personal products, and other essentials. Most <strong>international brands</strong> are now available in India, but you might find your neighborhood <strong>supermarket</strong> doesn’t store the brand you use.  Ditto for <strong>medication</strong> and first aid supplies.  Pack plenty of insect repellent and sun block – most of the touristy areas are unbearably hot.</p>
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<h4>Food and Drink</h4>
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<p>Always drink only bottled <strong>water</strong>, and stock your bag with a few extra bottles when you’re out for the day sightseeing, or heading to a remote village.  If you’re in a large group or intend to stay in a place for a while, buy larger 10,15, or 20 liter canisters, and refill your bottles as you go along.</p>
<p><strong>Avoid fresh fruit juices</strong> from roadside eateries. In fact, <strong>avoid roadside stalls</strong> altogether. The taste may be divine, and the flavors mouthwatering, but unfortunately, the hygiene and sanitary conditions take a hit. Stick to high quality restaurants. I don’t mean you should eat only in five star joints, but reasonably high quality places that aren’t teeming with flies and have a clean look about the surroundings, should do fine.</p>
<p><strong>Avoid salads</strong>, and fresh fruit that’s been pre cut.  Avoid Western food in a restaurant that serves mainly Indian food – chances are the food might not be as fresh, because it’s not as popular with the locals.  If you want a taste of home, head to a five star hotel or any one of the pizza and fast food joints cropping up all over the country.</p>
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<h4>Beggars</h4>
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<p>If there’s one thing that will jump out at you the moment you land in one of the metro cities, it’s the beggars.  Most beggars here are professionals, and belong to a<strong> beggar mafia</strong>.  Those horrible disfigurements and amputated limbs? Chances are high that those were actually done on purpose, so the beggar could garner more loose change. Ignore them, or handover a single rupee if you have to; not more.  Be generous, and you risk having an entire gaggle of beggars surrounding you, clamoring for more!</p>
<p><em>Photo of Indian market originally posted by <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/meanestindian/328065495/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Meanest Indian</a> </em></p>
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		<title>How to avoid gaffes at religious places of worship</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 09:13:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shabana Nather</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Whether you’re traveling in Europe, or roaming exotic lands in Asia, places of worship will have a place in your tourist itinerary.  Churches and chapels, mosques, Hindu and Buddhist temples, synagogues – almost all places of worship of the major religions are similar in their grandeur and intricate detailing.
While visiting a place of worship, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.venere.com/blog/images/chiang-mai-thailand-temple.jpg" alt="Buddhist Temple in Chiang Mai, Thailand" align="left" height="180" width="240" />Whether you’re traveling in Europe, or roaming exotic lands in Asia, places of worship will have a place in your tourist itinerary.  <strong>Churches</strong> and chapels, <strong>mosques</strong>, Hindu and <strong>Buddhist temples</strong>, <strong>synagogues</strong> – almost all places of worship of the <strong>major religions</strong> are similar in their grandeur and intricate detailing.</p>
<p>While visiting a <strong>place of worship</strong>, it’s always necessary to find out whether the place in question is still being used for <strong>religious services</strong>. If yes, then that place ceases to become a <strong>tourist attraction</strong>, and needs to be treated with respect.</p>
<h4>Dressing Up</h4>
<p><strong>Dressing rules</strong> may be slightly more relaxed when you visit a church than when you step inside a <strong>mosque</strong> or <strong>Buddhist temple</strong>, but a fair amount of decorum would not be amiss.  Girls, leave the plunging neckline tops, mini skirts and shorts for a trip to an exotic spice bazaar, or to people watch at the beach. Guys should take care to not leave their knees uncovered. Remember, it may look like a beautiful structure with <strong>gorgeous statuary</strong> and stained glass ceilings, but it is a place held in reverence by some of your fellow human beings.</p>
<h4>Taking pictures</h4>
<p>It might be tempting to collect a few shots of the lavishly dressed goddesses in a temple, but always inquire if <strong>photography </strong>is <strong>allowed</strong> inside the building.<strong>  Respect the sanctity</strong> of the place.  Don’t take pictures of yourselves and your friends posing jauntily beside a statue or next to the altar– worshipers will consider it rude.</p>
<h4>Conducting Yourself</h4>
<p>Admiring a Buddhist temple in <a href="http://www.venere.com/thailand/bangkok/" target="_blank">Bangkok</a>?  Make sure that you sit on the floor in reverence, with your feet pointing away from the altar.  A <strong>mosque</strong> will always have a small niche in one wall, which points towards <strong>Mecca</strong>. Pointing your feet in that direction is extremely disrespectful.  Some <strong>Hindu temples</strong> will not allow foreigners into the <em>sanctum sanctorum</em> – don’t argue, or try to sneak your way into the queue.</p>
<h4>Be Respectful of Traditions</h4>
<p>When your guide points out <strong>rituals</strong> that are taking place or explains the intricacies of certain practices, listen patiently. Don’t mock them.  Even if you’re an <strong>atheist</strong>, respect that the people in the building are people of faith who take their beliefs seriously.</p>
<p>Ultimately, behaving yourself in a place of worship comes down to one thing – acknowledging, no matter what your religious orientation, that these buildings are very special to some people, and therefore treating it with the utmost respect.</p>
<p><em>Photo of Buddhist temple in <a href="http://www.venere.com/hotels/thailand/" target="_blank">Chiang Mai</a>, Thailand by Mascha  </em></p>
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		<title>What to bring when traveling with kids</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2008 14:00:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shabana Nather</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A vacation with your kids can be many things, but uninteresting is certainly not one of them!
Depending on how prepared you are, your holiday could turn into a challenge that leaves you in tears, or the fun filled one that sweet memories are made of. A big part of how prepared you are has to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2334/2214496756_a33cd397b5_m.jpg" alt="Young trying to push a car" align="left" height="159" width="240" />A vacation with your kids<strong> </strong>can be many things, but uninteresting is certainly not one of them!</p>
<p>Depending on how prepared you are, your holiday could turn into a challenge that leaves you in tears, or the fun filled one that sweet memories are made of. A big part of how prepared you are has to do with packing the right gear.</p>
<p>Here’s what your travel bag absolutely must contain:</p>
<h4>Clothing</h4>
<p>Pack for the weather at your destination. It won’t hurt to take along an extra jacket or two, and you can never pack too many pairs of underwear or pajamas. If you’re heading to a cold destination, take along woolen caps, a stack of sweaters, woolen socks, jackets and an extra blanket. If the weather is going to be sunny, add hats and sunglasses to the list.</p>
<h4>First Aid Box</h4>
<p>A first aid box is an absolute must, and doesn’t have to be an elaborate production. A simple, easy to open, sturdy plastic box will do just fine.  An emergency first aid kit must contain the following:</p>
<ul>
<li>Cold medication</li>
<li> Anti histamines</li>
<li>Adhesive bandages</li>
<li>Sterile gauze</li>
<li>Mild pain relieving sprays and gels</li>
<li>Analgesics</li>
<li>Anti nausea and anti diarrhea medication</li>
<li>Disposable cold packs</li>
<li>Anti bacterial creams for topical application</li>
<li>Anti bacterial hand wipes</li>
<li>Tweezers</li>
<li>Scissors</li>
<li>Safety pins</li>
<li>Sun screen</li>
<li>Insect repellent</li>
<li>Calamine lotion</li>
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<p>Use sandwich bags or zip locked bags to compartmentalize all items in your box, and label each bag.</p>
<h4>Travel Gear</h4>
<p>Depending on whether you’re traveling by road, rail or air, you’ll need to take games and toys along to keep your kids entertained during the drive or flight.  A favorite book or doll will do just fine.  For babies, remember to take along a toy that’s bright and makes a little noise to keep him pre occupied. If on the road, take some snacks and juices along for the ride.</p>
<h4>Baby Gear</h4>
<p>Traveling with a baby is the most challenging of all.  You’ll need lots of diapers, changing pads, baby wipes, and diaper rash cream. Trash bags and zip lock bags can be used to hold soiled clothes. Don’t forget feeding bottles, plenty of nipples, a pacifier, bibs, and stacks of soft napkins.  If your child is on formula, take along a bottle sanitizer, beside tins of formula and bottled water, feeding bowl with a lid and a spoon.</p>
<p>Traveling out of town with kids is a great way to expand their horizons, and broaden their experiences. Just make sure you’re perfectly outfitted for the journey!</p>
<p>When planning your family holiday, check out <a href="http://www.venere.com/" title="Venere.com">venere.com</a> for a kid-friendly hotel.</p>
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